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May 6th Marks 21 Years of Marriage...But Today, I Celebrate the Peace of Leaving it Behind!

May 6th Marks 21 Years of Marriage...But Today, I Celebrate the Peace of Leaving it Behind!

The woman I am today didn’t come from staying. She came from walking away. I chose peace, I chose stability, and I chose me. This isn’t about the years I gave. It’s about the freedom I claimed when I left and the way I’ve been held ever since by the Most High, by truth, and by peace.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
DatingDating
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #20: "My Fiancé Loves That I’m ‘Pure’ But I’m Starting to Feel Like He Hates Women. Should I Still Marry Him?"

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #20: "My Fiancé Loves That I’m ‘Pure’ But I’m Starting to Feel Like He Hates Women. Should I Still Marry Him?"

When he prays with you, treats you well, and calls you “wifey material”, but the way he talks about other women makes you question if he even likes women at all.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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They Said Marriage Was the Goal. I Say Freedom Is. Choosing to Live by the Narrative of One.

They Said Marriage Was the Goal. I Say Freedom Is. Choosing to Live by the Narrative of One.

Why it is time for women of faith to stop living by the narrative of men, the masses, and the church and instead start living by the narrative of one.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #19: “I Found Di*k Pics in My Husband’s Phone After 12 Years of Marriage. What in the World Am I Gonna Do Now?” (Video Included)

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #19: “I Found Di*k Pics in My Husband’s Phone After 12 Years of Marriage. What in the World Am I Gonna Do Now?” (Video Included)

When betrayal hits home, do you pray through it, stay through it, or walk away?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
SuccessSuccess
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She Was Buried Alive. But Tonight? SHE RISES!

She Was Buried Alive. But Tonight? SHE RISES!

How to bring your voice your power and your pleasure back to life!

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
CultureCulture
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #18: “He Said He Wants to Choke Me During Sex...Should I Be Concerned?”

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #18: “He Said He Wants to Choke Me During Sex...Should I Be Concerned?”

How to have real conversations for women of faith (especially those who are engaged) who are exploring desire, and trying to make sense of modern sexual trends.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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She’s Still AWOL... Just Quieter, Clearer, and Done Negotiating

She’s Still AWOL... Just Quieter, Clearer, and Done Negotiating

How I had a reckoning in the silence and it told me all I needed to know.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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When Love Starts to Look Like Performance!

When Love Starts to Look Like Performance!

What Happens When Marriage Becomes a Stage Instead of a Safe Space?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #17: Is It Wrong That My (Sexual) Healing Came Through 'Friends with Benefits' and Not Celibacy as a Single Woman?

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #17: Is It Wrong That My (Sexual) Healing Came Through 'Friends with Benefits' and Not Celibacy as a Single Woman?

What happens when your (sexual) healing didn’t come in the “church-approved” package but it still made you whole?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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After I Gave All I Had, I Had Nothing Left...Except Me!

After I Gave All I Had, I Had Nothing Left...Except Me!

What if starting over in your late 30s, 40s, or 50s is the greatest gift you’ve been given?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #16: "Why Doesn’t My Husband Desire Me"?

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #16: "Why Doesn’t My Husband Desire Me"?

When You're His Wife, But Not His Fantasy and the Women in His DMs Get the Parts of Him You’ve Been Begging For.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
SexualitySexuality
The Conditioning of Celibacy of Women of Faith (Premium Video)

The Conditioning of Celibacy of Women of Faith (Premium Video)

How women of faith were conditioned into celibacy, not as an empowered choice, but as a default expectation, and what happens when that no longer aligns as you get older?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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