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They Said Marriage Was the Goal. I Say Freedom Is. Choosing to Live by the Narrative of One.

They Said Marriage Was the Goal. I Say Freedom Is. Choosing to Live by the Narrative of One.

Why it is time for women of faith to stop living by the narrative of men, the masses, and the church and instead start living by the narrative of one.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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After I Gave All I Had, I Had Nothing Left...Except Me!

After I Gave All I Had, I Had Nothing Left...Except Me!

What if starting over in your late 30s, 40s, or 50s is the greatest gift you’ve been given?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #15: My Faith Says No, but My Body Says Yes. How Do I Honor My Faith While Longing for Sex and Intimacy at 38 with No Suitor in Sight?

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #15: My Faith Says No, but My Body Says Yes. How Do I Honor My Faith While Longing for Sex and Intimacy at 38 with No Suitor in Sight?

When you don't want to be celibate while single anymore while navigating desire, devotion and the deep craving for intimacy, without losing yourself or your faith

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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The Power of Touch: How I Fulfill My Intimate Needs...Without Sex.

The Power of Touch: How I Fulfill My Intimate Needs...Without Sex.

Navigating life after separation, I’ve discovered profound ways to satisfy my body’s craving for connection. Here’s how I embrace intimacy, affection, and touch, without engaging in sex.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...

When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...

Special LOEV Letter on knowing when to handle it yourself and when to go to someone else.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Why "Couple Goals" Is a Trap: The Danger of Putting Relationships on Pedestals.

Why "Couple Goals" Is a Trap: The Danger of Putting Relationships on Pedestals.

Stop idolizing relationships and start creating the love you truly desire on your terms. Here’s why “couple goals” may be keeping you unfulfilled.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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From Marriage to Separation: How I Remained A Woman of Leisure Even When Life Fell Apart

From Marriage to Separation: How I Remained A Woman of Leisure Even When Life Fell Apart

No matter your relationship status; married, separated, single, or divorced, you too can create a life of Leisure on your own terms, just as I have.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #11: "He Basically Wasted Six Years of My Life and Never Proposed and Now He’s Marrying Someone Else? How Do I Stop Feeling So Angry"?

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #11: "He Basically Wasted Six Years of My Life and Never Proposed and Now He’s Marrying Someone Else? How Do I Stop Feeling So Angry"?

He used me for six years, never proposed, and now he’s engaged to someone else just five months after I broke up with him? He treated me badly, but she gets the best of him? Why?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance