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May 6th Marks 21 Years of Marriage...But Today, I Celebrate the Peace of Leaving it Behind!

May 6th Marks 21 Years of Marriage...But Today, I Celebrate the Peace of Leaving it Behind!

The woman I am today didn’t come from staying. She came from walking away. I chose peace, I chose stability, and I chose me. This isn’t about the years I gave. It’s about the freedom I claimed when I left and the way I’ve been held ever since by the Most High, by truth, and by peace.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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When Love Starts to Look Like Performance!

When Love Starts to Look Like Performance!

What Happens When Marriage Becomes a Stage Instead of a Safe Space?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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After I Gave All I Had, I Had Nothing Left...Except Me!

After I Gave All I Had, I Had Nothing Left...Except Me!

What if starting over in your late 30s, 40s, or 50s is the greatest gift you’ve been given?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #16: "Why Doesn’t My Husband Desire Me"?

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #16: "Why Doesn’t My Husband Desire Me"?

When You're His Wife, But Not His Fantasy and the Women in His DMs Get the Parts of Him You’ve Been Begging For.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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The Power of Touch: How I Fulfill My Intimate Needs...Without Sex.

The Power of Touch: How I Fulfill My Intimate Needs...Without Sex.

Navigating life after separation, I’ve discovered profound ways to satisfy my body’s craving for connection. Here’s how I embrace intimacy, affection, and touch, without engaging in sex.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...

When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...

Special LOEV Letter on knowing when to handle it yourself and when to go to someone else.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #14: "What’s the Point of Marriage If 20-Year Marriages Are Ending?"

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #14: "What’s the Point of Marriage If 20-Year Marriages Are Ending?"

If even decades-long marriages fall apart, does marriage still hold value? Let’s talk about alignment, longevity mixed with happiness, and what truly makes a marriage last.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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Why I Stopped Believing in the Permanence of Marriage. *Video*
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Why I Stopped Believing in the Permanence of Marriage. *Video*

Why I No Longer Believe Marriage Must Last Forever. Redefining Love, Commitment, and Choosing Yourself in a Way That Honors Your Happiness Whether You're a Believer or Not.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #13: "Why Did You Stop Believing in the Permanence of Marriage"?

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #13: "Why Did You Stop Believing in the Permanence of Marriage"?

Why I No Longer Believe Marriage Must Last Forever. Redefining Love, Commitment, and Choosing Yourself in a Way That Honors Your Happiness and Well Being rather a believer or not.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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From Marriage to Separation: How I Remained A Woman of Leisure Even When Life Fell Apart

From Marriage to Separation: How I Remained A Woman of Leisure Even When Life Fell Apart

No matter your relationship status; married, separated, single, or divorced, you too can create a life of Leisure on your own terms, just as I have.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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I Walked Away from a 20-Year Marriage with Almost Nothing, Rebuilt My Life and Bought My First Home in only 7 Months...without Him! (Part 3)
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I Walked Away from a 20-Year Marriage with Almost Nothing, Rebuilt My Life and Bought My First Home in only 7 Months...without Him! (Part 3)

How I Bet on Myself and Won, Rebuilding My Life in the Process and bought my first home without him; proving I didn’t need a man to create the life I desired and deserved.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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I Walked Away from a 20-Year Marriage with Almost Nothing, Rebuilt My Life and Bought My First Home in only 7 Months...without Him! (Part 2)
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I Walked Away from a 20-Year Marriage with Almost Nothing, Rebuilt My Life and Bought My First Home in only 7 Months...without Him! (Part 2)

How I Bet on Myself and Won, Rebuilding My Life in the Process bought my first home without him; proving I didn’t need a man to create the life I desired and deserved.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance