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Being the Exception Is Not the Same as Being Loved: The Silent Weight of Performing for His Approval!
May 12, 2025

Being the Exception Is Not the Same as Being Loved: The Silent Weight of Performing for His Approval!

Why when he prays with you, praises you, and calls you wifey, something about it still feels like pressure. Even when he calls you the one, you wake up every day feeling like you have to prove it.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
SexualitySexuality
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Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #21: "He’s Not My Husband, But the Sex Feels Like Answered Prayers. Please Tell Me This Isn't Wrong.”
May 08, 2025

Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #21: "He’s Not My Husband, But the Sex Feels Like Answered Prayers. Please Tell Me This Isn't Wrong.”

What to do when the sex feels like The Most High is blessing the room but there's no covenant.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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May 6th Marks 21 Years of Marriage...But Today, I Celebrate the Peace of Leaving it Behind!
May 07, 2025

May 6th Marks 21 Years of Marriage...But Today, I Celebrate the Peace of Leaving it Behind!

The woman I am today didn’t come from staying. She came from walking away. I chose peace, I chose stability, and I chose me. This isn’t about the years I gave. It’s about the freedom I claimed when I left and the way I’ve been held ever since by the Most High, by truth, and by peace.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
DatingDating
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #20: "My Fiancé Loves That I’m ‘Pure’ But I’m Starting to Feel Like He Hates Women. Should I Still Marry Him?"
May 01, 2025

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #20: "My Fiancé Loves That I’m ‘Pure’ But I’m Starting to Feel Like He Hates Women. Should I Still Marry Him?"

When he prays with you, treats you well, and calls you “wifey material”, but the way he talks about other women makes you question if he even likes women at all.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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