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MarriageMarriage

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May 07, 2025

May 6th Marks 21 Years of Marriage...But Today, I Celebrate the Peace of Leaving it Behind!

The woman I am today didn’t come from staying. She came from walking away. I chose peace, I chose stability, and I chose me. This isn’t about the years I gave. It’s about the freedom I claimed when I left and the way I’ve been held ever since by the Most High, by truth, and by peace.

Octavia E Vance

MarriageMarriage

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Mar 31, 2025

After I Gave All I Had, I Had Nothing Left...Except Me!

What if starting over in your late 30s, 40s, or 50s is the greatest gift you’ve been given?

Octavia E Vance

MarriageMarriage

+8+8

Mar 14, 2025

When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...

Special LOEV Letter on knowing when to handle it yourself and when to go to someone else.

Octavia E Vance

MarriageMarriage

+4+4

Mar 13, 2025

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #14: "What’s the Point of Marriage If 20-Year Marriages Are Ending?"

If even decades-long marriages fall apart, does marriage still hold value? Let’s talk about alignment, longevity mixed with happiness, and what truly makes a marriage last.

Octavia E Vance

DatingDating

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Feb 20, 2025

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #11: "He Basically Wasted Six Years of My Life and Never Proposed and Now He’s Marrying Someone Else? How Do I Stop Feeling So Angry"?

He used me for six years, never proposed, and now he’s engaged to someone else just five months after I broke up with him? He treated me badly, but she gets the best of him? Why?

Octavia E Vance