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Being the Exception Is Not the Same as Being Loved: The Silent Weight of Performing for His Approval!
May 12, 2025

Being the Exception Is Not the Same as Being Loved: The Silent Weight of Performing for His Approval!

Why when he prays with you, praises you, and calls you wifey, something about it still feels like pressure. Even when he calls you the one, you wake up every day feeling like you have to prove it.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
SexualitySexuality
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Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #21: "He’s Not My Husband, But the Sex Feels Like Answered Prayers. Please Tell Me This Isn't Wrong.”
May 08, 2025

Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #21: "He’s Not My Husband, But the Sex Feels Like Answered Prayers. Please Tell Me This Isn't Wrong.”

What to do when the sex feels like The Most High is blessing the room but there's no covenant.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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May 6th Marks 21 Years of Marriage...But Today, I Celebrate the Peace of Leaving it Behind!
May 07, 2025

May 6th Marks 21 Years of Marriage...But Today, I Celebrate the Peace of Leaving it Behind!

The woman I am today didn’t come from staying. She came from walking away. I chose peace, I chose stability, and I chose me. This isn’t about the years I gave. It’s about the freedom I claimed when I left and the way I’ve been held ever since by the Most High, by truth, and by peace.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
DatingDating
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #20: "My Fiancé Loves That I’m ‘Pure’ But I’m Starting to Feel Like He Hates Women. Should I Still Marry Him?"
May 01, 2025

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #20: "My Fiancé Loves That I’m ‘Pure’ But I’m Starting to Feel Like He Hates Women. Should I Still Marry Him?"

When he prays with you, treats you well, and calls you “wifey material”, but the way he talks about other women makes you question if he even likes women at all.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
CultureCulture
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #18: “He Said He Wants to Choke Me During Sex...Should I Be Concerned?”
Apr 17, 2025

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #18: “He Said He Wants to Choke Me During Sex...Should I Be Concerned?”

How to have real conversations for women of faith (especially those who are engaged) who are exploring desire, and trying to make sense of modern sexual trends.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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When Love Starts to Look Like Performance!
Apr 07, 2025

When Love Starts to Look Like Performance!

What Happens When Marriage Becomes a Stage Instead of a Safe Space?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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After I Gave All I Had, I Had Nothing Left...Except Me!
Mar 31, 2025

After I Gave All I Had, I Had Nothing Left...Except Me!

What if starting over in your late 30s, 40s, or 50s is the greatest gift you’ve been given?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
DatingDating
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The Power of Touch: How I Fulfill My Intimate Needs...Without Sex.
Mar 17, 2025

The Power of Touch: How I Fulfill My Intimate Needs...Without Sex.

Navigating life after separation, I’ve discovered profound ways to satisfy my body’s craving for connection. Here’s how I embrace intimacy, affection, and touch, without engaging in sex.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...
Mar 14, 2025

When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...

Special LOEV Letter on knowing when to handle it yourself and when to go to someone else.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #14: "What’s the Point of Marriage If 20-Year Marriages Are Ending?"
Mar 13, 2025

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #14: "What’s the Point of Marriage If 20-Year Marriages Are Ending?"

If even decades-long marriages fall apart, does marriage still hold value? Let’s talk about alignment, longevity mixed with happiness, and what truly makes a marriage last.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
TouchTouch
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The Power of Touch: The Healing Hugs You Didn’t Know You Were Starving For.
Mar 10, 2025

The Power of Touch: The Healing Hugs You Didn’t Know You Were Starving For.

Why You’re Not Being Touched Enough and How More Healing Touch Can Transform Your Mind, Body, Soul and Spirit.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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