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Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #22: "Right When I’m About to Climax, He Goes Soft and Then Blames Me. And I’m One Orgasm Away from Losing It. What am I Supposed to Do with That"?
May 15, 2025

Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #22: "Right When I’m About to Climax, He Goes Soft and Then Blames Me. And I’m One Orgasm Away from Losing It. What am I Supposed to Do with That"?

When he can't keep it up but blames you, what do you do with the shame, the silence, and the sexual frustration you just can’t shake?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Being the Exception Is Not the Same as Being Loved: The Silent Weight of Performing for His Approval!
May 12, 2025

Being the Exception Is Not the Same as Being Loved: The Silent Weight of Performing for His Approval!

Why when he prays with you, praises you, and calls you wifey, something about it still feels like pressure. Even when he calls you the one, you wake up every day feeling like you have to prove it.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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May 6th Marks 21 Years of Marriage...But Today, I Celebrate the Peace of Leaving it Behind!
May 07, 2025

May 6th Marks 21 Years of Marriage...But Today, I Celebrate the Peace of Leaving it Behind!

The woman I am today didn’t come from staying. She came from walking away. I chose peace, I chose stability, and I chose me. This isn’t about the years I gave. It’s about the freedom I claimed when I left and the way I’ve been held ever since by the Most High, by truth, and by peace.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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They Said Marriage Was the Goal. I Say Freedom Is. Choosing to Live by the Narrative of One.
Apr 29, 2025

They Said Marriage Was the Goal. I Say Freedom Is. Choosing to Live by the Narrative of One.

Why it is time for women of faith to stop living by the narrative of men, the masses, and the church and instead start living by the narrative of one.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #19: “I Found Di*k Pics in My Husband’s Phone After 12 Years of Marriage. What in the World Am I Gonna Do Now?” (Video Included)
Apr 26, 2025

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #19: “I Found Di*k Pics in My Husband’s Phone After 12 Years of Marriage. What in the World Am I Gonna Do Now?” (Video Included)

When betrayal hits home, do you pray through it, stay through it, or walk away?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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When Love Starts to Look Like Performance!
Apr 07, 2025

When Love Starts to Look Like Performance!

What Happens When Marriage Becomes a Stage Instead of a Safe Space?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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After I Gave All I Had, I Had Nothing Left...Except Me!
Mar 31, 2025

After I Gave All I Had, I Had Nothing Left...Except Me!

What if starting over in your late 30s, 40s, or 50s is the greatest gift you’ve been given?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #16: "Why Doesn’t My Husband Desire Me"?
Mar 27, 2025

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #16: "Why Doesn’t My Husband Desire Me"?

When You're His Wife, But Not His Fantasy and the Women in His DMs Get the Parts of Him You’ve Been Begging For.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...
Mar 14, 2025

When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...

Special LOEV Letter on knowing when to handle it yourself and when to go to someone else.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #14: "What’s the Point of Marriage If 20-Year Marriages Are Ending?"
Mar 13, 2025

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #14: "What’s the Point of Marriage If 20-Year Marriages Are Ending?"

If even decades-long marriages fall apart, does marriage still hold value? Let’s talk about alignment, longevity mixed with happiness, and what truly makes a marriage last.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Why I Stopped Believing in the Permanence of Marriage. *Video*
Mar 08, 2025
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Why I Stopped Believing in the Permanence of Marriage. *Video*

Why I No Longer Believe Marriage Must Last Forever. Redefining Love, Commitment, and Choosing Yourself in a Way That Honors Your Happiness Whether You're a Believer or Not.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #13: "Why Did You Stop Believing in the Permanence of Marriage"?
Mar 06, 2025

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #13: "Why Did You Stop Believing in the Permanence of Marriage"?

Why I No Longer Believe Marriage Must Last Forever. Redefining Love, Commitment, and Choosing Yourself in a Way That Honors Your Happiness and Well Being rather a believer or not.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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