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Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #22: "Right When I’m About to Climax, He Goes Soft and Then Blames Me. And I’m One Orgasm Away from Losing It. What am I Supposed to Do with That"?
When he can't keep it up but blames you, what do you do with the shame, the silence, and the sexual frustration you just can’t shake?

Octavia E Vance
Being the Exception Is Not the Same as Being Loved: The Silent Weight of Performing for His Approval!
Why when he prays with you, praises you, and calls you wifey, something about it still feels like pressure. Even when he calls you the one, you wake up every day feeling like you have to prove it.

Octavia E Vance
May 6th Marks 21 Years of Marriage...But Today, I Celebrate the Peace of Leaving it Behind!
The woman I am today didn’t come from staying. She came from walking away. I chose peace, I chose stability, and I chose me. This isn’t about the years I gave. It’s about the freedom I claimed when I left and the way I’ve been held ever since by the Most High, by truth, and by peace.

Octavia E Vance