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Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #22: "Right When I’m About to Climax, He Goes Soft and Then Blames Me. And I’m One Orgasm Away from Losing It. What am I Supposed to Do with That"?

Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #22: "Right When I’m About to Climax, He Goes Soft and Then Blames Me. And I’m One Orgasm Away from Losing It. What am I Supposed to Do with That"?

When he can't keep it up but blames you, what do you do with the shame, the silence, and the sexual frustration you just can’t shake?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
SexualitySexuality
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Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #21: "He’s Not My Husband, But the Sex Feels Like Answered Prayers. Please Tell Me This Isn't Wrong.”

Wednesday's Q&A with OEV #21: "He’s Not My Husband, But the Sex Feels Like Answered Prayers. Please Tell Me This Isn't Wrong.”

What to do when the sex feels like The Most High is blessing the room but there's no covenant.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #19: “I Found Di*k Pics in My Husband’s Phone After 12 Years of Marriage. What in the World Am I Gonna Do Now?” (Video Included)

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #19: “I Found Di*k Pics in My Husband’s Phone After 12 Years of Marriage. What in the World Am I Gonna Do Now?” (Video Included)

When betrayal hits home, do you pray through it, stay through it, or walk away?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
CultureCulture
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #18: “He Said He Wants to Choke Me During Sex...Should I Be Concerned?”

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #18: “He Said He Wants to Choke Me During Sex...Should I Be Concerned?”

How to have real conversations for women of faith (especially those who are engaged) who are exploring desire, and trying to make sense of modern sexual trends.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #16: "Why Doesn’t My Husband Desire Me"?

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #16: "Why Doesn’t My Husband Desire Me"?

When You're His Wife, But Not His Fantasy and the Women in His DMs Get the Parts of Him You’ve Been Begging For.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
SexualitySexuality
The Conditioning of Celibacy of Women of Faith (Premium Video)

The Conditioning of Celibacy of Women of Faith (Premium Video)

How women of faith were conditioned into celibacy, not as an empowered choice, but as a default expectation, and what happens when that no longer aligns as you get older?

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
DatingDating
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #15: My Faith Says No, but My Body Says Yes. How Do I Honor My Faith While Longing for Sex and Intimacy at 38 with No Suitor in Sight?

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #15: My Faith Says No, but My Body Says Yes. How Do I Honor My Faith While Longing for Sex and Intimacy at 38 with No Suitor in Sight?

When you don't want to be celibate while single anymore while navigating desire, devotion and the deep craving for intimacy, without losing yourself or your faith

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
DatingDating
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The Power of Touch: How I Fulfill My Intimate Needs...Without Sex.

The Power of Touch: How I Fulfill My Intimate Needs...Without Sex.

Navigating life after separation, I’ve discovered profound ways to satisfy my body’s craving for connection. Here’s how I embrace intimacy, affection, and touch, without engaging in sex.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
MarriageMarriage
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When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...

When I Have Issues With Him, I Go To Them...

Special LOEV Letter on knowing when to handle it yourself and when to go to someone else.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance