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Being the Exception Is Not the Same as Being Loved: The Silent Weight of Performing for His Approval!
May 12, 2025

Being the Exception Is Not the Same as Being Loved: The Silent Weight of Performing for His Approval!

Why when he prays with you, praises you, and calls you wifey, something about it still feels like pressure. Even when he calls you the one, you wake up every day feeling like you have to prove it.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
DatingDating
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #20: "My Fiancé Loves That I’m ‘Pure’ But I’m Starting to Feel Like He Hates Women. Should I Still Marry Him?"
May 01, 2025

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #20: "My Fiancé Loves That I’m ‘Pure’ But I’m Starting to Feel Like He Hates Women. Should I Still Marry Him?"

When he prays with you, treats you well, and calls you “wifey material”, but the way he talks about other women makes you question if he even likes women at all.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #18: “He Said He Wants to Choke Me During Sex...Should I Be Concerned?”
Apr 17, 2025

Wednesday’s Q&A with OEV #18: “He Said He Wants to Choke Me During Sex...Should I Be Concerned?”

How to have real conversations for women of faith (especially those who are engaged) who are exploring desire, and trying to make sense of modern sexual trends.

Octavia E Vance
Octavia E Vance
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